What makes you, you? What makes you tick? What kinds of things do you notice? What fills up your brain? Below are some places to start:
s-tier
- what’s your roman empire?
- what’s your favorite book?
- what does it feel like to fall in love?
- are you yin-dominant, yang-dominant, or somewhere in-between?
- what do people misunderstand about you? what do you wish they understood?
- what question do you want to be asked?
perception-check
- what impresses you?
- what does it mean to have a good sense of humor?
- what’s your opinion on shoplifting?
- is it ethical to be disagreeable?
- white lies: yay or nay?
- what do you think happens to us when we die?
- what do you think about designer babies?
- what’s your perspective on recreational drugs?
- can you visualize a red apple?
your internal world
- what’s your favorite way to cook a potato?
- tell me about something you deeply understand
- what kind of keepsakes do you hold onto?
- what does your ideal day look like?
- do you enjoy your birthdays? what do you like to do on them?
- If you could compartmentalize your brain, what would fill those compartments up? what’s consistent, what’s transient?
- if I had a box with everything you’ve ever lost inside it, what would you look for?
- do you feel comfortable in your own body?
- what makes you feel comfortable in your own body?
- what was the first time you knew you were in love?
- when was the first time you felt grief?
- how do you know when you’re being real?
in relationships
- if your parents were your age, would you be friends with them?
- what’s something you hope people notice about you?
- do you and your partner have communities that collide? is one stronger than the other?
- what kind of people do you like to make friends with?
- what’s your relationship with social media like?
- have you ever been in a clique?
- if you could choose any of your friends (who are a couple), who would you want to raise you? (think about the food they’d make, their emotional intelligence, whether they’d travel, etc.)
- do you like to be perceived? when yes, when no?
influences
- whats the most out of place you’ve ever felt?
- were you a good student? how do you think that’s impacted the person you are today?
- if you could divide your life into before and after, what event would separate the two?
- what’s the closest you’ve come to death?
- did you grow up with parents who wanted you to learn manners?
- did you take the ACT or the SAT?
- do you have any memories of fire? what age, with who, where?
the riddle (it’s not a riddle)
- favorite color? this represents the qualities u value in yourself
- favorite animal? this represents the qualities u value in others
- favorite element? this represents ur view on spirituality
Appendix
- what groceries u been into lately
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