Here is yet another card of balance, and in this case it is about knowing the limits of what you can give. It is important that you Put your own oxygen mask first before helping others—and it is also your duty to help others once you have received your oxygen. But helping others should not come at the cost of your own self. Yes, the world is unfair, but it is not wrong for you to have “made it.” Give what you can give. It is possible for you to find the balance between selfishness and selflessness.